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How to appear more confident and attractive?

How can I come across as more confident? Here are some tricks you can use to come across as confident — even if you're nervous, introverted or shy.

  1. Make eye contact (easily) 
  2. Chew gum beforehand, it relax's your mouth, helps you focus and breathe
  3. Breathe deeply
  4. Lower your voice tone
  5. Stand up straight
  6. Use your hands
  7. Use supportive self-talk
  8. Mentally rehearse
  9. Smile

How can you be confident or at least fake it?

  1. Taking control of your self-confidence. If you are low in self-confidence, is it possible to do things that will change that? ...
  2. Groom yourself. ...
  3. Dress nicely. ...
  4. Photoshop your self-image. ...
  5. Think positive. ...
  6. Kill negative thoughts. ...
  7. Get to know yourself. ...
  8. Act positive..

How does a confident person walk? Walking into a Room

  1. Smile as you walk and keep smiling. Smiling projects your confidence and makes you seem approachable as well. ...
  2. Stand up straight. A hunched appearance projects a lack of confidence. ...
  3. Walk briskly. ...
  4. Lengthen your stride. ...
  5. Keep your arms at your sides. ...
  6. Don't walk closely behind someone.

How do you look confident? The goal is to appear confident, even if you really aren't, and there are several tricks you can use to accomplish this.

  1. Stand tall. Take up space by standing tall. ...
  2. Make eye contact. ...
  3. Don't fidget. ...
  4. Speak slowly and clearly. ...
  5. Allow silences. ...
  6. Keep your hands visible. ...
  7. Take big steps, walk with confidence, gracefully, know how to walk in heels

How be confident in talking? Try these tips to get over your nervousness and to develop confidence while speaking.

  1. Expect to be nervous. Even experienced speakers get nervous. ...
  2. Prepare. Know what you are going to say – and why you want to say it.
  3. Practice. ...
  4. Breathe. ...
  5. Rehearse. ...
  6. Focus on your audience. ...
  7. Simplify. ...
  8. Visualise success.

If you'd like to see more of these characteristics in yourself, here's what you can do to be more comfortable in your own skin.

  1. Always be ready to tell a good story. ...read an interesting article
  2. Demonstrate inquisitiveness. ...
  3. Practice good posture. ...
  4. Stop worrying about what people think. ...
  5. Eliminate negative self-talk. ...
  6. Smile.

If you liked these tips and want to practise and learn more about presenting better, and walking into a room with confidence join one of our events https://www.australianfinishingschool.com/courses/