A Guide to Christmas Party Etiquette

We have put together a guide to the essential etiquette rules of the office Christmas party. With your office Christmas party fast approaching we offer this simple etiquette guide to help you navigate this perilous social minefield.

1 – Dress to Impress

Dressing for success isn’t limited to the workday. Of course, you probably won’t wear something you’d wear to the office, but you do need to put considerable thought into your attire. When you attend the company party, avoid wearing anything that is too revealing or shows too much skin. You don’t want your managers to think you lack discretion. Consider where the party is being held before choosing your outfit. If you are celebrating at a restaurant, follow the establishment's dress code. If the party is at a private home, and you are still unsure, ask someone you trust for advice.

2 – Keep drinks to a minimum

If you drink alcohol, do so in moderation. Otherwise, you might say or do something you will later regret. This can get you into trouble or alter someone’s favourable opinion of you.

3 – Food and Fun

Enjoy the food at the party, but avoid looking like a glutton. The size of the hors d’oeuvre plates will give you an indication of the amount you are expected to eat. Don’t overfill it, and never double-dip anything after taking a bite. Know which utensils to use and when to use your fingers. Regardless of how delicious the food is, don’t ask for a doggy bag. A more appropriate thing to do is request the recipe later.

4 – It’s time to mingle

Speak to everyone at the party in a positive, friendly tone, but don’t forget that this is not the place to say something negative that may get you into trouble later. If you find this difficult, make the rounds, greet everyone, and find an excuse to leave early. You should never say anything you wouldn’t say at the office.

5 – When to Arrive and Leave

Don’t be the first one to arrive, but don’t wait until the party is almost over either. Most of the time, showing up about fifteen minutes after the party starts is ideal, unless it’s a sit-down dinner with a designated time to be served. If that's the case, you need to show up on time. You also don’t want to be the last to leave the party. As soon as you see the event starting to wind down, it is time to make an exit. Look for signs that it’s time to go, such as the host picking up glasses or retrieving the guests’ coats.

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